Escaping the Dieting Trap:

Things to Consider, This International Women’s Day

Things to Consider, This International Women's Day

Have you ever thought about how much time and money you spend on your appearance? I don't know the numbers for everywhere in the world - and to be honest, I don't know how accurate the numbers I've found are. However - will you pause for a moment to consider, for example, if you have a morning...

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Health Beyond Weight:

Unpacking Weight Loss Without Dieting

Wanna Lose Weight Without Dieting?

Yep. I thought that would be interesting to you. It's not surprising. The world around us is continuously telling us our bodies need to be small(er) to be healthy and attractive. Thankfully, there seem to be small chinks of light in the fatphobic tunnel. The amazing work of the Health At Every...

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Becoming a Peaceful Eater:

How to Make a Tiny Shift in Language to Create a Huge Shift in Perspective

How to Make a Tiny Shift in Language to Create a Huge Shift in Perspective

Do you give yourself a hard time with 'if onlys'? If only I'd resisted the urge. If only I'd said yes to that invitation. If only I'd not binged. If only I hadn't gobbled that food down. If only I hadn't eaten that. If only I had eaten that, and not missed the opportunity! If only...

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Becoming a Peaceful Eater:

Eating May Be Fun, but What Brings Authentic Happiness?

Eating May Be Fun, but What Brings Authentic Happiness?

I wrote about insights that I'd had from Martin Seligman's Authentic Happiness here, and how I think they relate to issues with food and eating. Seligman says there are 2 key aspects to happiness in the present moment: pleasures (last week's post was all about that) which are short-lived experiences...

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Body Image & Self-Compassion:

Why Is It So Important To Be Beautiful?

Why Is It So Important To Be Beautiful?

Several times a week I notice women judging themselves as ugly having seen a photograph of themselves.  It triggers diet mentality - and also binge eating (which are in a cause and effect relationship). It got me wondering... What does ugly mean? What does beautiful mean? How do we define...

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