How to Make a Tiny Shift in Language to Create a Huge Shift in Perspective

How to Make a Tiny Shift in Language to Create a Huge Shift in Perspective

Do you give yourself a hard time with 'if onlys'? If only I'd resisted the urge. If only I'd said yes to that invitation. If only I'd not binged. If only I hadn't gobbled that food down. If only I hadn't eaten that. If only I had eaten that, and not missed the opportunity! If only...

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Eating May Be Fun, but What Brings Authentic Happiness?

Eating May Be Fun, but What Brings Authentic Happiness?

I wrote about insights that I'd had from Martin Seligman's Authentic Happiness here, and how I think they relate to issues with food and eating. Seligman says there are 2 key aspects to happiness in the present moment: pleasures (last week's post was all about that) which are short-lived experiences...

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When You Think Making Peace With Food Is Too Hard

When You Think Making Peace With Food Is Too Hard

I stretch because I want the benefits of stretching.  I have to admit - often I don't enjoy them - sometimes they hurt or they're just really uncomfortable. As I write this, my legs are spread-eagled in a stretch that is causing a lot of discomfort! I'm writing this now because I noticed what I was...

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The Remarkable Way Your Beliefs Can Shape You

The Remarkable Way Your Beliefs Can Shape You

I remember when I was about 8 years old, standing on my mother's bathroom scale, and thinking, 'It's too much!' Looking back at pictures of myself as a child, I was just an average looking 8 year old. I don't recall being given the message by my family that I was 'too much' although anyone with kids...

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3 Surprising Digestive Aids You Won’t Have Heard Of

3 Surprising Digestive Aids You Won't Have Heard Of

With diet culture shouting loudly at us every single day - whether it's when you turn on the TV and see Hugh Fearnley-Whittingstall (celebrity chef in the UK) or Dr Michael Mosely on their misguided missions to make us all healthier by making us thinner, or the latest superfood promising miracles, I...

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How to be Ruthless with the Truth

How to be Ruthless with the Truth

One of the things I teach my clients, is how to be ruthless with the truth. Our minds are tricky and they convince us that all sorts of things are true -  about ourselves, about others and about the world around us. It starts as a way to keep us safe as children. We need the people in our lives (especially...

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