But I Still Want to Be Healthy

But I Still Want to Be Healthy

“I understand that dieting doesn’t work. I’m tired of obsessing over my weight. I want peace with food and my body… But I still want to be healthy.” I hear this often - and I get it. Because for so many people, the desire to be healthy isn’t just about weight. It’s about wanting...

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“I Just Feel Uncomfortable” – When Body Discomfort Is Real, But the Solution Isn’t Shrinking

"I Just Feel Uncomfortable" – When Body Discomfort Is Real, But the Solution Isn’t Shrinking

“It’s not that I hate how I look. I just feel uncomfortable.” This is something I hear often from clients. And I take it seriously. Because the discomfort is real. Sometimes it’s vague - a sense of unease or restlessness. And sometimes it’s very specific and physical: Skin...

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What Happens When You Stop ‘Fixing’ Your Body

What Happens When You Stop ‘Fixing’ Your Body

For many of us, the project of fixing our bodies has taken up years - even decades - of our lives. The diets. The plans. The apps. The workouts. The rules. The shame. The hope that this time, we’ll get it right. So what happens when you stop? What happens when you decide not to chase...

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Why Weight Control Fuels the Struggle with Food

Why Weight Control Fuels the Struggle with Food

For many people, the pursuit of weight loss - or just the fear of gaining weight - feels like the only way to feel safe around food. It’s the frame that shapes their choices, thoughts, and self-talk: “Will this help me lose weight?” “I shouldn’t eat that – it’ll make me gain.” “I’ve...

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Health Is Not a Personal Project: Unpacking the Myth of Control

Health Is Not a Personal Project: Unpacking the Myth of Control

It’s normal to want to feel well in your body. To have energy. To move freely. To live a life not dictated by pain or illness. The desire to be “healthy” is deeply human. But somewhere along the way, that desire got tangled up in a cultural narrative that says: “Your health is your...

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The Wellness Industry Told You to ‘Listen to Your Body’ – But Then Told You What to Hear

The Wellness Industry Told You to 'Listen to Your Body' – But Then Told You What to Hear

For years now, “listen to your body” has become a kind of mantra in wellness circles. On the surface, it sounds empowering - a reclaiming of intuition, a turning away from rigid diets and toward something gentler. But for many people I work with, that phrase has quietly become yet another trap. “If...

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